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9.27.2011
2nd Child Syndrome
As Caroline turns 3Months today I have to sit down and apologize to her for allowing her to get the "2nd Child Syndrome"...maybe some families are better at warding off this syndrome, but for me, its here and so is the guilt. Here are the symptoms:
1. Very few "for caroline only" toys/books/ as most of the toys/equipment we have are now her hand-me-downs from trey. i know it doesn't economically make sense to go and buy her new stuff when we have it, but at the same time i do feel guilty that everything was new for trey.
2. Not many pictures or long blog post about her. I have been able to keep up with the photos, however they either have trey in them or its just a photo and not a drawn out, indepth, very detailed description of what she is doing.
3. "just for a second" i set Caroline down alot. She likes her bouncy seat or her playmat and In order to get things done with trey I tend to set her down quite often, and she is sooo nice about it. She hardly ever complains. Pretty sure i held trey 24hours a day.
4. "flexible'' I claim that Caroline is so flexible, easy-going, go with the flow, but is she really? Or have we just made her that way bc well, we have to be on the go because of our schedules, and more so Trey's Schedule...his life hasn't slowed down with a new baby, instead we have made her fit into our schedules and routines...we never did that with Trey we def. "babied" him waaaaaaaaaaay more than this baby.
I give my Mom a hard time about favorites and now i totally get it. Its not about favorites its about with one child you have waaaayyy more TIME than with 2 and so on....The First Child gets alot of TIME and "first'':: first toys, first oohss and ahhs, never having to had share the attention or affection of Mom + Dad. However, Caroline may get less TIME alone, but she gets more TIME with all of us: me, daddy and trey who all love her to moon and back.And spending alot of TIME with us is a good thing! She knows she is loved by us.
Maybe its different with siblings that are born closer in age as they are doing the same things and are on the same page or siblings who are 4 to 5 years apart as the oldest is by then is usually more self sufficient than Trey is at 2 1/2, however, with T + C being 2 1/2 years apart they are not in "sync" as far as their daily lives go. Which makes this balancing act in my mind, slightly more difficult, from an attention stand point that is.
to my baby sister, i get it. Sorry for not getting it before...but i understand now. Look how close we are, probably bc you had to spend alot of TIME with me and for that I am not sorry. I am not sorry in the slightest for all the TIME we spent together: even if that meant you got jipped on photos, new toys, hand me down bikes/roller skates, I wouldn't change how close we are and the TIME we spent growing up for anything. I hope you concur. I only hope I can create that with Trey + Caroline.
1. Very few "for caroline only" toys/books/ as most of the toys/equipment we have are now her hand-me-downs from trey. i know it doesn't economically make sense to go and buy her new stuff when we have it, but at the same time i do feel guilty that everything was new for trey.
2. Not many pictures or long blog post about her. I have been able to keep up with the photos, however they either have trey in them or its just a photo and not a drawn out, indepth, very detailed description of what she is doing.
3. "just for a second" i set Caroline down alot. She likes her bouncy seat or her playmat and In order to get things done with trey I tend to set her down quite often, and she is sooo nice about it. She hardly ever complains. Pretty sure i held trey 24hours a day.
4. "flexible'' I claim that Caroline is so flexible, easy-going, go with the flow, but is she really? Or have we just made her that way bc well, we have to be on the go because of our schedules, and more so Trey's Schedule...his life hasn't slowed down with a new baby, instead we have made her fit into our schedules and routines...we never did that with Trey we def. "babied" him waaaaaaaaaaay more than this baby.
I give my Mom a hard time about favorites and now i totally get it. Its not about favorites its about with one child you have waaaayyy more TIME than with 2 and so on....The First Child gets alot of TIME and "first'':: first toys, first oohss and ahhs, never having to had share the attention or affection of Mom + Dad. However, Caroline may get less TIME alone, but she gets more TIME with all of us: me, daddy and trey who all love her to moon and back.And spending alot of TIME with us is a good thing! She knows she is loved by us.
Maybe its different with siblings that are born closer in age as they are doing the same things and are on the same page or siblings who are 4 to 5 years apart as the oldest is by then is usually more self sufficient than Trey is at 2 1/2, however, with T + C being 2 1/2 years apart they are not in "sync" as far as their daily lives go. Which makes this balancing act in my mind, slightly more difficult, from an attention stand point that is.
to my baby sister, i get it. Sorry for not getting it before...but i understand now. Look how close we are, probably bc you had to spend alot of TIME with me and for that I am not sorry. I am not sorry in the slightest for all the TIME we spent together: even if that meant you got jipped on photos, new toys, hand me down bikes/roller skates, I wouldn't change how close we are and the TIME we spent growing up for anything. I hope you concur. I only hope I can create that with Trey + Caroline.
Caroline 3 Months
Caroline 11 Weeks
9.21.2011
Caroline 2 Month Dr. Visit
9.20.2011
Trey 2 1/2
Trey turned 2 1/2 on the 16th of September! I cannot believe our little guy has been in our lives for LESS THAN 1,000 days...912.5 days to be exact. Trey you have changed our lives in more than 1,000 ways.
Daddy and I were listening to music one night and a song came on by Guy Clark( Mommy had never even heard of him until then :)). The song was called "The Cape" and Daddy just said, "This is the song I want played at Trey's Wedding. This is what I want him to always remember no matter how old he gets or what life throws his way"...I didn't really get it until i went home and read the lyrics and then, well, I cried.
Trey, we hope you always wear your "cape" and never forget that you can be/do whatever it is that sets your heart on fire and stirs a passion in you: YOU CAN FLY...just always take that leap of faith! Lots of love on your 2 1/2 Birthday. Mommy + Daddy.
Here is my first attempt at making our home movies set to music. I'm sure they will get better with practice.Click on the word HERE below to view. Its longer than I meant it to be and kinda "slow" so it may be enjoyable for people like Grandparents and my sister :)
HERE
Here are the words to the song by Guy Clark, The Cape:
The Cape
Eight years old with flour sack cape
Tied all around his neck
He climbed up on the garage
Figurin’ what the heck
He screwed his courage up so tight
The whole thing come unwound
He got a runnin’ start and bless his heart
He headed for the ground
Chorus
He’s one of those who knows that life
Is just a leap of faith
Spread your arms and hold you breath
Always trust your cape
All grown up with a flour sack cape
Tied all around his dream
He’s full of piss and vinegar
He’s bustin’ at the seams
He licked his finger and checked the wind
It’s gonna be do or die
He wasn’t scared of nothin’, Boys
He was pretty sure he could fly
Chorus
Old and grey with a flour sack cape
Tied all around his head
He’s still jumpin’ off the garage
And will be till he’s dead
All these years the people said
He’s actin’ like a kid
He did not know he could not fly
So he did
Chorus
Daddy and I were listening to music one night and a song came on by Guy Clark( Mommy had never even heard of him until then :)). The song was called "The Cape" and Daddy just said, "This is the song I want played at Trey's Wedding. This is what I want him to always remember no matter how old he gets or what life throws his way"...I didn't really get it until i went home and read the lyrics and then, well, I cried.
Trey, we hope you always wear your "cape" and never forget that you can be/do whatever it is that sets your heart on fire and stirs a passion in you: YOU CAN FLY...just always take that leap of faith! Lots of love on your 2 1/2 Birthday. Mommy + Daddy.
Here is my first attempt at making our home movies set to music. I'm sure they will get better with practice.Click on the word HERE below to view. Its longer than I meant it to be and kinda "slow" so it may be enjoyable for people like Grandparents and my sister :)
HERE
Here are the words to the song by Guy Clark, The Cape:
The Cape
Eight years old with flour sack cape
Tied all around his neck
He climbed up on the garage
Figurin’ what the heck
He screwed his courage up so tight
The whole thing come unwound
He got a runnin’ start and bless his heart
He headed for the ground
Chorus
He’s one of those who knows that life
Is just a leap of faith
Spread your arms and hold you breath
Always trust your cape
All grown up with a flour sack cape
Tied all around his dream
He’s full of piss and vinegar
He’s bustin’ at the seams
He licked his finger and checked the wind
It’s gonna be do or die
He wasn’t scared of nothin’, Boys
He was pretty sure he could fly
Chorus
Old and grey with a flour sack cape
Tied all around his head
He’s still jumpin’ off the garage
And will be till he’s dead
All these years the people said
He’s actin’ like a kid
He did not know he could not fly
So he did
Chorus
Trey's School Note
Trey + Caroline
Harvanek Birthdays!
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| trey "almost" as he says 2 1/2 |
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| Birthday Girl Ella |
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| Birthday Boy Hayes |
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| Nothing like dippin' your finger in icing! |
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| Ella + Trey playing Dr. for the sick pony |
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| Daddy + Trey building a log house. Trey loves things like this and puzzles. |
Caroline 10 Weeks
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| Taken on the morning of Thursday Sept 15 2011 |
9.14.2011
Michael Spotlight
as i was looking for some other photos to post, i came across these that i had taken right when the magazine article came out way back in MARCH or was it MAY I can't recall. Anyhow, I wanted to document this as it was a huge honor for Michael to be called upon and asked to be interviewed. There were only about 4 others interviewed as well, and Michael was by far the YOUNGEST and the only Midstream/Energy related person asked to be interviewed from CITI, Including people in NY.
He works so hard and he truly is passionate about his job. On top of that he is damn good at it too :)
The bottom two pages are his interview and responses! I am so proud of you, babe!


He works so hard and he truly is passionate about his job. On top of that he is damn good at it too :)
The bottom two pages are his interview and responses! I am so proud of you, babe!


Ashley's Wine Weekend: Part 2
Cheers to the Future Mrs. Morrow! Love you, Duster and can't wait to celebrate your wedding!


Great Gift from Meagan: says "Mrs. Morrow" and she can hang her wedding dress on it the day of the wedding. Will make a great photo prop :) Love Mom's smile as she looks on....





sisters...




wouldn't be a lingerie shower without Ashley doing the Tech Fight Song: Her inner Tech Cheerleader came out :)

I sent Myron some questions and his cousin video taped him! I love ashley's smile here as she is watching him. It was a huge hit!! and the video will make an awesome keepsake for those two.

MM you are so cute!!





Great Gift from Meagan: says "Mrs. Morrow" and she can hang her wedding dress on it the day of the wedding. Will make a great photo prop :) Love Mom's smile as she looks on....





sisters...




wouldn't be a lingerie shower without Ashley doing the Tech Fight Song: Her inner Tech Cheerleader came out :)

I sent Myron some questions and his cousin video taped him! I love ashley's smile here as she is watching him. It was a huge hit!! and the video will make an awesome keepsake for those two.

MM you are so cute!!



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